50 I Love My Husband Quotes & Messages
Obviously you love your man enough to have married him, but that doesn’t mean it’s always easy to come up with the perfect words to tell him how much you love him! Whether you want to send him a surprise text in the middle of the day, or you want to leave a romantic note in his car, there are a lot of times that you may want to leave your husband a romantic message. To help you put your love into words, we have compiled a list of 15 I Love My Husband Quotes and messages. We hope that these ideas help you find the perfect thing to say!
1“I’m not sure exactly when I decided that you were the man I was going to marry, but I know that I have never questioned my decision. You are incredible and I just wanted to remind you how much I love you. Have a great day.”
This super sweet message is incredibly meaningful and will make him feel very appreciated and loved. Surprising your husband with a message like this is a great way to make his day!
2“You are the dreamiest man in the world and I feel like the luckiest girl to have you.”
When you’ve been with someone for a long time, it can be easy to take each other for granted. Reminding him that you are still very attracted to him and consider yourself lucky to have him is a romantic way to keep the spark alive.
3“It is absolutely crazy how much I love you. It is also absolutely crazy what a mess you make in the morning! Luckily, I love you so much that I have cleaned up your mess. I can’t wait to kiss your gorgeous face when I see you at home later.”
Even though you love your husband, odds are that he does (or doesn’t do!) a few things that drive you nuts! Whether he doesn’t do his dishes or leaves his clothes everywhere, a message like this is a great way remind him that his messes cause you extra work without sounding like you are nagging or angry at him. As they say, you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar, so it is more likely that he will pull his weight around the house if he doesn’t feel the need to get defensive.
4“When we first started dating, I thought the most romantic thing that you could do would be to send me roses or buy me jewelry. Now, I realize the most romantic thing in the world is that you wake up next to me everyday with my stinky morning breath and drool stained pillow and the first thing you do is tell me how beautiful I am. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
The honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever, and it’s important to be able to find the romance in the simple things. Love isn’t about grand gestures; it’s about the small things that happen every day.
5“I don’t remember my life before I was married to you. Thank you for completing me.”
This message is short and sweet, but it is sure to bring a smile to his face knowing how connected you feel to him!
6“I love you because you are the only person who can make me happy no matter where we are, or what we are doing. I am so grateful to have you in my life and can’t believe that I am lucky enough to call you mine.”
Your husband will love hearing that he is the only person who can bring you joy no matter what the circumstances.
7“You’re hot and I like you a lot. I’d definitely ask you out… if you hadn’t already asked me to marry you.”
Not all romantic messages need to be overly sappy! This is a great example of a way to show your love while being humorous!
8“Every day I think about how I love you more than yesterday. Knowing that tomorrow and the day after are coming fills me with so much joy!”
Marriage isn’t always easy, but sharing good and bad experiences together strengthens your love over time. Especially if you and your husband have been having struggles with things like finances or job security, this type of message is a great way to tell him you love him no matter what!
9“Knowing that you love me is the thing that gets me through days like today.”
Your husband wishes that he could make every day amazing for you, but he will be glad to know that you view him as a source of hope and happiness when you are struggling with things that he has no control over.
10“You are the light of my life.”
Romantic messages don’t need to have a lot of words. This short and sweet message says it all!
11“One of my single friends just asked me if I ever miss feeling single or if I feel tied down by being married. Thinking about it made me so happy that we are married.”
Sometimes, your husband might feel insecure or wonder if you miss the freedom of dating. Reminding him how much happier you are being married to him will make him feel loved and secure in the relationship!
12“Whenever I think ¸about you, I smile. I smile a lot nowadays. Thanks for being a great hubby.”
This lighthearted and sweet message is an awesome way to show your husband what a great impact he has on your happiness.
13“You’re going to laugh at me because this is corny, but I totally understand what people say when they feel like they found their other half. You complete me.”
It’s hard to write a romantic message without sounding a little corny, so acknowledging the corniness of your message is totally fine and he’ll think you’re cute for doing so!
14“I am more attracted to you everyday. I am so glad that our spark will never die.”
Every guy likes an ego boost, so this message is a great way to remind him that you think he’s a total stud!
15“It’s so convenient being married to my best friend. I love you.”
The most successful marriages happen when spouses are best friends as well as romantic partners. This message is sweet and will make him think about how lucky he is to have you as well!
16Love is friendship that has caught fire…
”…It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses.”
Marriage is for the strong at heart. The fire isn’t just the passion of early love, but the strength and dedication it takes to love someone with your whole heart, forever, no matter what.
17I choose you. And I’ll choose you over and over and over. Without pause, without a doubt, in a heartbeat. I’ll keep choosing you.
Falling in love with someone- the initial spark- doesn’t feel like a choice, but maintaining a marriage? That’s a choice, one you make every single day. The choice can be hard, and the process can be hard, but you do it with love, and you wouldn’t have it any other way.
18When I say I love you more, I don’t mean I love you more than you love me…
”…I mean I love you more than the bad days ahead of us, I love you more than any fight we will ever have. I love you more than the distance between us, I love you more than any obstacle that could try and come between us. I love you the most.”
This is exactly how you should feel about your husband: madly in love, totally aware of how much you may have to overcome, and ready to face all of it.
19I look at you and see the rest of my life in front of my eyes.
How often do you really count on someone being by your side for your whole life? This would be a good one to work into your vows if you’re writing them yourself, or planning a vow renewal.
20Our journey isn’t perfect, but it’s ours, and I’ll stick with you ’til the end.
When you’ve committed to spend your whole life with someone, it’s plain unrealistic to think things will always be sunshine and rainbows. There’s beauty and power in acknowledging the perfection that lies in imperfection.
21Being someone’s first love may be great, but to be their last is beyond perfect.
When you married your husband, that was the goal: to be his last love. It’s special because not only does it mean your love will overcome every obstacle it faces, but when you’ve already been through a few relationships, you know yourself and what you want so much better. You choose your last love with a clearer head and more knowledge than you’ve chosen anyone before.
22Your are my today, and all of my tomorrows.
To be someone’s forever is special. To still be able to live in the moment and adore them in the here and now? That’s special, too, and very important to keeping the spark alive.
23The first time I saw you, my heart whispered, “That’s the one.”
Sure, you liked him, but when you find the person you’ll love for the rest of your life, it almost seems impossibly lucky, impossibly good that you made the right choice. Maybe the explanation is that our hearts know something we don’t, and draw us together.
24You don’t marry someone you can live with- you marry the person who you cannot live without.
Marriage requires that you make compromises and give up on the concept of permanent perfection and never having hard times. You will have hard times. But you aren’t just tolerating hard times. You’re willing to face the hard times together because living without that person is worse than any hard time with him by your side.
25Every love story is beautiful but ours is my favorite.
It’s your favorite because you know its most intimate, heartwarming details so well. It’s your favorite because you get to feel it unfold, feel those butterflies firsthand.
26Without you, I’m nothing. With you, I’m something. Together, we’re everything.
Because the whole of “us” is greater than the sum of its parts “you” and “me.”
27You don’t fall into love. You commit to it. Love is saying, “I will be there no matter what.”
Really, you do both. First you fall in love, and day after day, you choose it, and commit. Your marriage is the promise to choose and commit forever.
28And I’d choose you; in a hundred lifetimes, in a hundred worlds, in any version of reality, I’d find you and I’d choose you.
Kiersten White, The Chaos of Stars
Of course, we only have one life to live, which makes choosing one person as your life partner all that much bigger. You only get one chance on this planet to do it right. But when you’re sure in one lifetime, with the weight of never getting another second chance, you’re sure in any lifetime.
29I love…neither with my heart nor with my mind…
30I’d rather have bad times with you, than good times with someone else…
”…I’d rather be beside you in a storm, than safe and warm by myself. I’d rather have hard times together, than to have it easy apart. I’d rather have the one who holds my heart.”
What makes life more worth living than our personal relationships? The rest of it will happen whether we like it or not, but when you find the love of your life, you’ll want to hold on, through everything else.
31You are the answer to every prayer I’ve offered…
”…You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
Of course there’s a Nicholas Sparks quote on this list! Of course it’s from The Notebook! If you use this one for your husband, he doesn’t even need to know it’s from the ultimate chick-lit tearjerker…it’s so lovely, who would ask where it came from anyway?
32You are my best friend, my human diary, and my other half. You mean the world to me and I love you.
Friendship is the foundation for a lasting marriage. When you get to share your life and home and bed with your best friend and always have his ear, that’s the dream. That’s the life.
33You have my whole heart for my whole life.
This is a beautifully simple summary of what you promise the one you marry. You probably said a lot in your vows, about sickness and health and what have you, but this says it all in fewer, richer, plainer words.
34I love you not only for what you are but for what I am when I’m with you.
A lot of people bring out the good in us, but the man you marry should be the one who brings out the absolute best in you. You’re going to be by his side forever, so to love him and love yourself even more for him is a beautiful thing.
35I carry your heart with me. I carry it in my heart.
You think of him in everything you do. You consider his heart alongside your own with every decision. Your heart is forever bound to his, and these very famous first lines from an ee cummings poem say just that.
36I look at you and I’m home…
I see nothing worse than to be without you because with you my soul feels complete, you are the other half of me and I love you. You are my home no matter where that is.
Finding your partner for life, and knowing he’s it, defies logic. It’s a feeling in your gut, or your soul if you prefer.
37I’m done. I don’t need anything more out of life. I have you, and that’s enough.
We won’t get everything we want out of life. If you’ve found your true love, everything else is a bonus.
38Since you’ve walked into my life, now I see why it didn’t work out with anyone else.
Whether or not you believe in fate or anything like that, you can relate to this. When you do find the man you want by your side for the rest of your life, you see more clearly all the things that you were missing with other men, all the qualities that make him shine so much brighter and love you so much better than anyone else ever did.
39Even if I have a hundred reasons to leave you, I’d still look for that one reason to fight for you.
And sometimes, it will get hard. You will ask yourself if you can live with his flaws and your incompatibilities forever. But he’s your husband because you know you can. And you will find that reason, and you will fight for it.
40I love you for all that you are, all that you have been, and all you’re yet to be.
When you’re with someone for life, you have to accept that things can change over time. This quote tells your husband that you accept change with open arms, and since you love him so much, you love all his potential future selves, too.
41I still do.
As a culture, we put a lot of pressure on people to have a perfect wedding day, but do we focus enough on having a good, lasting marriage? Maybe not. That doesn’t mean you can’t. You can say this to your husband every single day, right alongside the equally important, “I love you.”
42I loved you yesterday. I love you still. I always have. I always will.
It’s cute, it’s sweet, it’s simple, and it expresses your continuing love and commitment to your husband. This is easy to say and it’s catchy, so he’ll remember you saying it!
43When I look in his eyes, I don’t see perfection…
”…I don’t see a love story that someone would watch on a big screen and dream about. I see someone who will fight for me and protect me and love me in spite of all the ways I’m still a wreck. I see home.”
Perfection is a silly concept, and a bad expectation. You and your husband need to fit each other, and more than that, you need to know and want each other. Perfection, Prince Charming? Those don’t touch how special your husband is for how intimately he knows and loves you.
44Doubt thou the stars are fire/Doubt that the sun doth move/Doubt truth to be a liar/But never doubt I love.
When nothing else is sure, on the hardest and scariest days of his life, your husband should know that he never, ever has to doubt your love.
45To love is nothing. To be loved is something. But to love and be loved, that’s everything.
When love runs both ways, everything clicks. Everything comes together. The love that you and your husband share for each other is complete and beautiful.
46I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.
Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
Countless writers and artists have expressed the dizzying wonder of living in such a big world where we still manage to find people who can sweep us off our feet. Paulo Coelho’s words suggest that it’s the will of a kind universe that brings us together, and isn’t that as good and lovely an explanation as any other?
47He’s more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.
Emily Brontë, Wuthering Heights
It’s true that sometimes the people closest to us know us better than we know ourselves. Your husband probably falls into that category. How special it is to have someone who can bring you back to yourself and be your mirror, and with whom you share such a deep and private thing.
48If you remember me, then I don’t care if everyone else forgets.
Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore
You’ve promised your love and devotion to him. He may not be the only person who matters in your life (in fact, he shouldn’t be), but he’s the person you have got to do right by. To express that sentiment, you can borrow these words from one of the most eloquent writers working today.
49I want to do with you what spring does with the cherry trees.
One way to think of this beautiful line of Pablo Neruda’s poetry is that you want to encourage your husband to grow, blossom into his best and most magnificent self. But interpret this one as you will, because you can certainly draw other conclusions here…
50Happiness is holding someone in your arms and knowing you hold the whole world.
Orhan Pamuk, Snow
Because when you wrap your arms around him, if only for a moment, everything else stops. Nothing else matters. You’ve got your man, and together, you’re everything.