Relationship Goals

Fighting, discussions, arguments, however, you want to call it, disagreements are a healthy part of any relationship. The trick is to be able to voice your disagreement without making your partner feel unloved or unwanted. You are arguing a topic or a fact, not the other person.

There are two things to consider here. First, It’s healthy for every relationship that both sides have their own time alone, be with other friends etc. It is definitely not healthy to be together 24/7, and its always fun to miss each other! So give each other space and alone time.

There is nothing that feels as bad as being physically together with someone and feeling alone. Even being alone and feeling lonely is not as bad as that. This happens when your partner does not pay attention to you when you ask for it, regularly. Or when they “talk” to you, but are on their phone at the same time. Don’t be that partner, and don’t accept that from your partner.

There are three in any relationship. You, your partner, and your relationship. In order to function healthily in the long-term, you need to equally pay attention to each. There needs to be a balance between individual needs and relationship needs.

Even if you do not care about what they care about in and of itself, in a healthy relationship you support their goals, simply because it is important to them. And they do the same for you. That support can take many forms, from just having a warm meal ready when they come home late from work, to joining them in their practice.

Whether it is building Ikea furniture together or going on a road trip, there are some things that stress out even the most balanced individuals. If you can’t do them together because it causes to much stress, be able to accept that and simply not do them together. The relationship is more important than building that closet together.

Electronics are a part of our daily lives, there is no denying that. Be careful not to have all your conversations with a smartphone in your hand though. Face to face electronic free connection time is so important to a healthy relationship. At the same time, it is always fun to bring a smile to your partners face with a cute little message saying you are thinking about them.

Just because you know what your boundaries are, does not mean you need to be mean about them. It creates a so much better relationship when you learn to communicate assertively while being kind at the same time.

Nobody is perfect and when you wear a mask all the time, people will never get to know the real you. When you feel sensitive, or when something happens that makes you feel something, share that with your partner. At the same time, also allow them to share their feelings, even if they are not standard for their gender.

It is, of course, great if you can talk about serious issues in the world, and in your relationship with your partner. And very important to be able to do that. At the same time, don’t forget to build in some time for uncomplicated fun times either. Those are equally important.

Mutually satisfying sex life is so important for a healthy relationship. That means not pushing when the other is not in the mood, but still being open for a conversation if it happens too often.

Money is not at all important if you have these things in your relationship.

Find that balance where you can feel at home with someone, relax together, and yet still do exciting stuff.

Even if on paper they are not the perfect person for you to be with, there is just something about them that makes you love them and want to be with them forever.

It is the best feeling in the world when your partner has options, could be anywhere else, and still chooses to be with you. To stand next to you and only you.

Everybody has flaws, and when your partner knows about yours, and still wants to be with you, that is a relationship goal right there.

The voices in our head are crazy and it is wonderful when your partner wants to hear all about them anyway.

When you find someone who looks at you like that, hold on and don’t ever let go.

Beware of people who promise things that are impossible, but when they want to do something real and romantic, that’s what matters.

Being with someone and not even being able to imagine a life without them is a great feeling. It is what all healthy relationships should be like. Not that you couldn’t live without them, but that you just don’t want to imagine it.

Maybe you are not someones first. And that is ok, the firsts are not what matters. Being the last matters.

It is not easy to stay together in the long run, but having the intention to do so, is the first step.

There is nothing better than that feeling of belonging when you are in a relationship with someone.

It can be even more intimate to connect on a mental level, instead of just the physical.

Being in love is hormones. Love goes beyond that and requires some effort, but also gives so much in return.

Making new memories, creating couple traditions and having inside jokes between the two of you. All those things are what makes being in a fulfilling relationship so satisfying.

It is never easy when there are troubles in the relationship. The best attitude to have is Us vs the Problem, instead of You vs Me.

There is no worse feeling than feeling alone when you are together with your partner. Even if there is nothing they can do for you, just a hug or a kind word lets you know you are not in this alone.

When you are in a happy relationship do not ever take it for granted. Celebrate each day and let each other know how lucky you both are to be in each other’s lives.

Don’t just feel lucky though. Be the type of partner who you know your loved one deserves to have in their lives.

Nothing is perfect all the time, but when you actively choose to continue to love each other especially when fighting and when you don’t feel too kindly towards each other, you know you have a strong relationship on your hands.

When you come out of a less than great relationship and you finally find someone who loves you for who you are, and not in spite of what you are, that is one of the best feelings in the world.

You do not always have to be in super sexy loving relationship mode. Sometimes it is ok if you just want to be silly together for a bit. And how great is the feeling when you can be silly with your best friend who is also your partner?

When you are someone’s life and they are yours, you know the relationship is forever.

When you really love each other and you are in it for the long run, you enjoy learning and growing together. Maybe the relationship will not look the same as it did when you just started out, but it will be even better.

Communication and respect lead to trust. Keep these three in your relationship and give them the importance that they deserve, and you will have a long and happy relationship.

When you are with your true love, you don’t just smile, and you are not just happy. They make your heart sing and dance, with just a smile.

Are all it takes for you to have a wonderful un and healthy relationship!

These moments that are felt so special you can’t describe with words..

More than words..

What a beautiful cuple goals quote! You are a team, you balance each other, respect and back each other.

Love comes from the inside and is all about trust, spending time together, interest and good communication.

No one is perfect, we all have our own flaws. Become the best version of yourself and choose someone who will also encourage you to become the best version of yourself.

You’re there for each other and go through the good and the bad times in life together.

“…I never realized how much you would end up meaning to me.”

Making and spending quality time together is one is not the most important thing in a relationship.

Be with the one you can go crazy with!

Send this as a romantic note to your special girl, the one you want to spend your life with.

Be with someone who is by your side always, during the hardest times, and not just the good time.

You’re crazy about each other!

Emotional safety and security is a key factor in a relationship.

If she doesnt challenge or inspire you she might not be the one for you.