7 Tips to Knowing He is Into You
How to know if a guy likes you? We have all been there before; the awkward guessing game of does he like me or does he just want to be friends. And it is never fun being caught in the heated debate that we all face mentally. So before you find yourself going crazy with endless possibilities to what his actions could mean, check out our Top 6 tips on knowing if he is into you.
It is no secret that body language is a decoder to how someone really feels. Just think about when you’re in an argument with a friend, they might say they are fine but maybe you’re noticing their arms are crossed over their chest, which is giving you another message. Reading a guy’s body language is the same way.
The most important feature to look at is his chest. You heard me. While there are many indications in the body language department that might mean he’s into you, men have a tendency to direct their chest at the thing they are paying the most attention to. This means, even if he is talking up another girl or surrounded by people at a party, you can tell who really has his attention. So if you notice that his chest is majority of the time squared off towards you, then GO FOR IT!
When he is talking to you, do you find his eyes wandering around or focusing on you? And of course we’re not talking about random wandering, as humans we all have a tendency to look around. The difference comes down to when his eyes are wandering. If he is engaged and interested, he will spend the majority of the time focusing on you.
You might catch him looking at you, while you’re fiddling with something else, after he asks a question, or even when there is silence. These are all sure fire signs, that he is totally digging you.
3Doing Small Things for You
Any guy who is smitten will want to make their crushes life a little easier. Guys like feeling wanted and needed. So start looking into the small things he does for you. Is he the first one to offer help when you have errands or chores? Does he go out of his way to bring you small gifts like your favorite treat to brighten up your day? If the answer is yes, then chances are he is trying to show you just how charming he can be as your White Knight.
Anyone who is interested in anything will ask questions. It’s basic human nature. The real issue comes down to the type of questions he is asking. When someone is into you, they want to know all about you. He might ask questions about your favorites, family, dislikes, passions, and so much more. If he is taking the time to ask these questions, then he is totally interested. This is also a great way to get to know more about him as well. As he asks questions, answer them truthfully and as open as you want, but don’t forget to ask him in return. Conversation is the easiest, when both parties are involved. Not to mention, it shows him that you’re interested as well.
5Wants to be Around You
The best way to know if someone is into you, is by how much they want to be around you. In today’s world, that doesn’t even mean physical. When we are caught up with something that we like, we can’t help but want more of it. If you are making him smile and brighten his day, it makes perfect sense why he would reach out to be around you. And when he does reach out, it means he is thinking of you.
Do you wake up to see a message from your crush? During the day is he sending you random things like pictures or articles you might enjoy? Is he trying to make plans to hangout low key or go out? (No Netflix and chill) This will always be your number one sure fire way to know if he is interested. If he wants to spend more time with you, he likes you. No ands, ifs, or buts about it.
6Invites You to Family/Friend Gatherings
This is a huge step to figuring out his real feelings for you. Not only does this show that he wants others to know about you and get to meet you, but this is his way of seeing how well you fit. This could be really scary for you, but remember it’s scary for him as well. These are people he shares his life with, who know him extremely well, and might be a little protective. But he wouldn’t be bringing you around, if he didn’t think you were worthy.
Types of invites can be scattered around different groups of people, but they all mean the same thing. He wants you to be a part of his life and accepted. He cares what his family and friends think, so when he hands you an invite it’s because he wants the people special to him to get to know you. Also, by introducing you to the people around him he will be able to spend more time with you and open up more. If this is happening, it is only a matter of time before he asks for an official date.
Trust yourself! It can be extremely scary throwing yourself out into the dating world, but it’s also rewarding. You are going to get a few bumps and bruises, kiss a few frogs, and maybe fall for a few princes that might not see you as their princess. BUT IT’S OK! Because these experiences will always lead you to something bigger and better.
So if you are trying to figure out if a guy likes you, then take the plunge and just test the waters. You don’t have to come right out and ask him, but don’t be afraid to put out a few moves and see if he responds. Be the first one to ask questions, ask to hang out, or do something special for him. Who knows, he might be so nervous he never thought that he could land a girl like you.