20 Flirty Text Messages for Your Guy
Whether you are in a long term relationship and you want to keep the spice alive or you want to flirt with your crush, odds are that you have been thinking about sending a special guy in your life some flirty text messages. If you are already in a solid relationship, it is easier to send flirty text messages since you know that they will be received positively and you don’t have a chance of enduring romantic rejection. However, if you are texting your crush, or a guy who you have only been casually seeing, it may be nerve-wracking figuring out what to say! Whether you fall neatly into one of these groups or somewhere in between, we have compiled a list of some sexy text messages to send to your guy. We hope you enjoy this list and don’t forget that you can always change any of these ideas so that they best fit your personality and relationship dynamics!
11 “I’ve been thinking about you all day”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: What guy doesn’t want to hear that a girl has been thinking about him all day? Knowing that someone is thinking about you is super flattering so he will definitely love receiving this text message from you. He will be intrigued and wonder what is that you were thinking about. This flirty message will definitely make him smile and think about you all day in the way that you were thinking about him! Mission: accomplished.
22 “I can’t wait to see you next”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: Knowing that you are thinking about him even when you two are apart will make him feel special. It will excite him hearing how eager you are to see him again and it will boost his confidence knowing that you are interested in him in a flirty way. He will also be impressed that you have the confidence to text him a blatantly flirty message since not all girls are brave enough to do this. Guys think confidence is sexy in the same way that girls think confidence is hot!
33 “I just got out of the shower”
44 “I’m laying in bed and so bored. When will I see you next?”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: This is a super flirty text because it makes him think about you in bed (and his imagination will run wild!) and also opens the door for him to suggest hanging out. You make it clear that you aren’t doing anything currently, but you aren’t desperately begging him to come over. He will wonder what you meant with this sexy message which means that he will spend more time thinking about you!
55 “You’re hot”
66 “I want you now”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: This sexy text message is impossible to misunderstand so it is a great text to send if you want your guy to be very clear about your intentions!
77 “You excite me”
88 “I was talking about you today”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: Although this text is not explicitly flirty, it will excite him to know that you were talking about him since that shows he was on your mind. You don’t need to tell him exactly what you were saying at first because keeping it vague will inspire him to continue the conversation to satisfy his curiosity. When he asks, you can either tell him what you were saying or respond with a coy “wouldn’t you like to know ;).”
99 “My yoga instructor said today that I have gotten super flexible”
1010 “Don’t tire yourself out too much today”
1111 “I heard today is ‘naked day.’ Wanna celebrate?”
1212 “I had a dream about you”
1313 “There’s something I’d much rather be doing than working right now” (after he asks what, reply “you”)
1414 “What do you think I should wear today”
1515 “There is no one else like you”
1616 “You have the sexiest [insert feature] I have ever seen”
1717 “I’m outside”
1818 “The zipper on my dress is stuck, can you come over and help me?”
1919 “I am cooking you a steak”
Why this is a great flirty text message for him: It is age old wisdom that the way to a man’s heart is through his heart. There is nothing sexually explicit about this text, but you may as well have sent him a picture of you in your underwear, that is how much this text will excite him.
2020 “The things I want to tell you are not suitable for all audiences”
When you’re trying to send a flirty text message to a special guy in your life, it is very easy to over think what you should say to him. It is important to make sure that your flirtation cannot be interpreted as aggressive or reflecting desperation. Although it is fine to trust your instincts, it also is not a bad idea to let one of your friends give you their input on your message before you hit send. If for some reason your flirtatious texts don’t work and he does not reciprocate your advances, don’t take it too hard because it is a blessing in disguise. The only thing worse than rejection is wasting months pining over someone who you don’t realize doesn’t return your feelings.